I never wanted to be your weekend lover
To anyone who cares about music, this shouldn't be optional. For all the music I've seen, the spectacle of a Prince show can sadly only be compared to Superbowl halftimes and awards show performances. Yet this is what live music can be; this is the mold into which record labels pour pop star clay. Looking down at the stage and up at retired Knicks jerseys in the rafters I realized that I had never thought I would see a performer like this. How many are there really? MJ, James Brown and who else?
The praise bestowed on him before even reaching the stage felt unnatural and completely opposite to a rock aesthetic, but it wasn't about a band, this was really about one artist formerly and currently known as Prince. He took the stage in a gold bedazzled suit and matching high-heeled shoes, and his energy was immediately large enough to fill the arena. But it was his presence that was unique. Absent were the stereotypes of masculinity and sex, and black or white, just a transcendent performer in front of ten thousand really different people, the way that the best have always existed.
It took two songs for it to be clear that this was one of the most complete performers ever. He danced and played guitar like it was a part of him, closing his eyes, completely connected to his instrument whether it dripped like oil or burned like a brushfire. He fell to the ground singing "Nothing Compares 2 U" and sang the most aggressive falsetto I've ever heard.
I remember a lecture in college on rock history, where the professor described a milestone song that changed popular music. Being students raised on Nirvana and Pavement I couldn't imagine this song being anything other than "Smells Like Teen Spirit." To our guesses he only smirked. When the professor pressed play and "Purple Rain" played I didn't even recognize it.
On Monday, the guitar was unmistakable. I knew immediately that Prince was performing "Purple Rain" and it felt like seeing something for the first time that you knew intimately through every way but life. When "Purple Rain" ended I stood awash in gentle awe.